The Key Point of Life: Balance

Dualism

 Dualism given the concepts which things never would consider seperated. If we seperate from one other, the other dualist concept will be meaningless. Therefore, rebellious behaviour against evil has no sense. Nevertheless, Everyone subconsciously knows it. Nobody lives with reference to this dualism even though they know. Majority of people never think between these two dualist concept and most of the time they pursue good dualist concepts and eventually it will be a wrong and unsuccessful goal. I can give you these dualist concept for example;

Female - Male

Good - Evil

Sorrow - Happiness

Positive - Negative

True - False

Generous - Stingy

Fat - Thin

Benefit - Harm

These things are linked to each other and never would be considered without other one.

Potential Dualism

 In dualist concept things potentially differ according to it's existing level and alterable cases and it potentailly effects it's opposite meaning. It's potential existence would be effected and mutable. To understand and comprehend this subject I would like to give you examples of happiness conceptions. Everyone wants to be happy. And majority of people persue happiness. This is a huge mistake. You can read my article about it from here. To get ourselves to maximum levels of joy we must feel that sorrow. How much we are unhappy, potential happiness increases in the same way of time. For example, let's imagine a man who has no money or income. If someone give him money to make him a rich man, this man would be happy. If someone give the same amount of money to a poor man, he will be happy too but not as much him. And again If someone give the same amount of money to a man who is a little bit richer than previous two men, this guy will be less happy in comparison. In same case scenario for a rich man, he won't be happy at all. Because his funds won't be increased. We can imagine it opposed way. If a rich man lose his all money he's gonna be sad and unhappy. If a poor man lose his all money, he's not gonna be unhappy than rich man. And a moneyless man wouldn't be unhappy in any case. This examples are directly connected with all happiness cases. You can suppose for all cases about happiness. Also all dualist things have same potential difference. Female-male and sole-dual are not included of course. 

To grasp this potential dualism subject I want to mention about "having no" situations. This is directly relevant to example that I have given in this subject. Being in a good shape in life or leading good life increases potential loss of happiness or favor whatever the situation is about. If you are so happy, it would turn back much worse than you have. I mean how much you are happy, potential unhappiness is increasing at the same rate. Opposed states are included too. And In case If you have nothing, If you possess nothing, potential possession increases. If you possess very much, potential possession decreases. Basically It effects people's morale and psychology. Esspecially in case one is trying to acheive, reach or complete something.

Also need to think about that without existence of negative things, it is impossible to expect to positive things. If you want to have something, first you shouldn't have it. We can think in the same way of opposite meaning for sure. One who has more things, meanwhile potential lost increases at the same rate. As a result of that, happiness should be on the edge, you have to get hold of that balance. Even if we can manage to obtain all possible happinesses, there wouldn't remain anymore. So unhappiness gonna be inevitable. And these are the some concepts about dualism;

Sadness - Happiness

Generosity - Stinginess

Good - Evil

Thin - Fat

Slowness - Agile

Talky - Quiet 

and the others.

The way of being successful goes through stabilizing. This is very important in social life. You should communicate with your acquaintance by dualism and start relationship by that. Doing your actions more or less than enough gonna break down your relationships. Even if you see these action beneficial. For example: buying a gift, compliment,  talking, sharing experience, recommendation, love and interfering. Stabilzing with them is very importance for good relationship with your friends.

And we can say similiar things for survive. For example: Eat, drinking, being on the move, sleep, social life and fun. These thing are harmful if you do more or less than enough.